"Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give, not grudgingly, or of necessity; for God loveth a cheerful giver"
2 Corinthians 9:7
As a forensic risk assessor and counsellor, I have seen what wrongdoers can do to their victims. In Court, whether it be a Magistrates' Court or the Family Court, a perpetrator will always try to gain control and deflect with lies and conspiracy theories.
Relationships are challenging, yet nobody should become a victim to a perpetrator. If this is familiar to you, then help is at hand by contacting mark@justex.com.au
Below are some suggestions and YouTube videos by Dr Henry Cloud
Take Back Your Life Are you involved with an individual who attempts to exert control over you? In the video below, Dr Henry Cloud explains how establishing boundaries can alter dynamics, empowering you to regain control of your life. Dr Henry Cloud explains that individuals exhibiting controlling behaviour may only function in that manner if they are engaged in a relationship with someone who is accommodating. When an individual establishes boundaries, articulates their demands, and remains resolute, the controlling person must either adjust or may experience frustration and retreat.
Take Back Your Life. (set boundaries with controlling people)
Recognising the Signs and Break Free
Understanding Gaslighting
How to Love Yourself
How to Protect Yourself from Manipulation and Invalidation
Necessary Endings Protect Your Future